From the Mother:
Don’t lie to me because I already know everything about you.
Don’t ask too much, you also have to know when keep silent.
Are you conscious of what you are doing? Or you just don’t care?
Play with and love all your friends coming from other countries because they are children just like you.
Why do you want to study psychology?
Enjoy the people any moment you spend with them because you don’t know when you are going to see them again.
Don’t use a bad language otherwise it will be retorted against yourself one day.
You have to be a little bit fatter. Men don’t like skinny ladies.
You have to use comfortable heels you can walk on because you are a woman. Also use skirts more often then pants.
Help your sister and forgive her all the time if something goes wrong.
It doesn’t matter, I don’t want to listen anything else, you should just forgive that person. Just forgive okey?
From the Father:
You should not think about money too much because money will come. The most important for you is to behave in a honest and respectful way with your colleagues and supervisors. In this way you ‘ll get any job you wish.
I expect the other people to talk good about you when they meet me. I don’t want to hear any complaining about you.
You should nor copy nor follow anybody, you should be yourself all the time and seek for the dimension you are looking for.
Listen to the people and be interested in their life.
Don’t talk to much, by listening you can grow faster. Listen especially to the elders because the fact that they have white hair it means they can count on a longer experience than yours.
If its possible try to help everybody at the same way.
Life is beautiful because is never the same.
Life is a game. Sometimes its like playing card, you have to decide which card to put down in order to make the best play.
Don’t lie to anybody otherwise your life will become very confused and complicated and you mind will go crazy.
When you go to sleep at the end of the day see if your consciousness is clean and light. Every day you should test it.
Don’t think about the past, it is totally unuseful and blocks your growth.
Measure yourself, you must know how far you can walk anytime. Don’t make a step longer than your leg (Italian proverb)
Talk to yourself in the mirror. When mistaken have the courage to tell yourself “you are not good, you did something wrong, now forgive it and keep going”.
Who knows yourself better? Yourself or the others?
You have to find equilibrium in everything you do and say.
You should have discipline with yourself, try to get up early every morning. Don’t spoil your body.
Don’t smoke and don’t take any drug otherwise you will become addicted and loose control upon yourself.
Don’t believe in the love is commercialized around by the TV and at the movie theatre. This is not the real love.
The politicians are all there to make you laugh, they are like comics. Same the TV shows.
The culture is not important, the experience is more important.